Threesomes!!!

Threesomes are every guy's fantasy (the good kind anyway). If your man tells you that he's never fantasized about being with two women at the same time, he's lying to you!! Quite frankly, a lot of women are into that too. A lot of other women have a problem with that. Threesomes very easily get complicated. And then there's something of a double standard. How so? Well, if a guy is with two girls, then he's "the man." If a girl is with two men, then she's "a slut." Not fair if you ask me.

Threesomes easily get complicated because it's easy for someone's feelings to get hurt. It's hard to find a balance in how much attention to pay to each person and if someone feels they were slighted, it's all over. It's especially difficult for people in a committed relationship. Personally, even though I had always wanted to be with a woman, it made me feel inadequate that my husband wanted to be with another woman too. It's important for a couple to sit and have a serious conversation about what exactly their feelings are about a threesome, what they are looking for, and what their boundaries are. Then they need to decide if they will be able to honor all of those things. For instance, if the girl doesn't feel comfortable with her man actually having sex with another woman, but it's his fantasy to actually fuck both of them, there could be a problem.

When Chris and I decided to try to have a threesome, it took a lot of discussion. We had to talk through exactly what we wanted and what each of us was comfortable with. Chris loves to see me with another woman, even if he doesn't participate. I, however, had hangups and a few things I wasn't comfortable with Chris doing. Then it took a while to find someone to have a threesome with. We have very different taste in women, so we had to find a girl we were both attracted to. She had to be someone who agreed to our rules and (at least my first time) was willing to take it slow. It took a while, but we did finally find her.

I was so nervous that evening!! We all sat on the couch and talked for a little bit, and imbibed a little liquid courage. Then Chris took me in the bedroom and had me take off my clothes and he blindfolded me and laid me on the bed. Then he went and got the other girl. Your senses are always heightened when you're blindfolded, and it felt incredible to have two sets of hands on my and two mouthes covering my body in kisses. When they each started sucking on one of my nipples, I went crazy. Chris took charge and sort of "directed" things in a way he knew I would enjoy. It was so great to feel a woman go down on me. It's definitely a different experience. By the time they had finished ravaging me, I was exhausted!! Then I asked if he would fuck her. They both made sure I was okay with it, and it was amazing!!! I never thought it would be so hot to watch my husband be with another woman, but it got me so hot to make out with her and play with her tits while he fucked her!

I'd have to say that our experience was great. I learned a lot about myself and what I like in the process. And I can't wait to do it again!