Saturday, December 1, 2007

Weekends

Well hello, hello. It's finally Saturday. After a very loooooong week I'm looking forward to relaxing with my husband. And maybe doing a little something else with my husband too (wink, wink). Long, stressful weeks are the worst. Nobody wants to have sex when they're tired and stressed out or have something on their mind. It's an unfortunate truth. And really, this is true whether you're a guy or a girl. So what to do? Deal! Really you have to recognize that sometimes it's just not a good time for sex. If there is anything you can do to help get rid of the stress, then by all means do so. Maybe offer a nice massage, or a footrub, or let the other person relax and have some space. That may or may not do the trick. Oftentimes, you'll just have to wait until a better time.

Well a better time is upon us - the weekend. It's nice to not worry about work or anything else. My husband and I like to make a game out of watching football. Our sex will depend upon how the game goes. If his team wins, then he'll fuck me. If his team loses, then I'll give him a blow job. And no matter what, he'll give me a little spanking based on how many points the other team scored.

Now, that may not be your thing. BUT, if you're tired of feeling like your man is ignoring you for football, you may want to think up some creative ways to involve sex with the football. Make sure you wait until halftime or the game is over, though. Try to gauge his mood by the score of
the game. You may be able to invest in a cute cheerleader outfit (who didn't want to have a cheerleader?!). Or maybe you can just walk up to him with nothing at all on. I guarantee THAT will get his attention.

Regardless, look for ways to work some sex into whatever is going on. Especially if your partner has had a long, difficult, or stressful week, surprise them with something that's all about them. And above all - stay sexy!